Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Love: Is it really what we think it is?

Lately I've been thinking about love, with all my friends starting to get into relationships, they say they are in "love" with the person.

My question to you is,can a person really be in "love" with someone after a few days of dating, or do people starting feeling emotions for a person and immediately call it love? I highly doubt that their in "love".

The last relationship I was in, the girl wanted me to put I Love her, in my MSN name, and then I got to thinking about it. If I truly did love her, and she truly loved me, why did I have to put it in my msn name? Which brings me onto my next point, why do people find it obvious to tell their girlfriend/boyfriend that they love them everyday, the person should know that you love them, why else would you be dating? I would find it suspicious that my girlfriend found it necessary to tell me that she loved me every time she saw me. Could just be me though.

And this brings me to my final point about peoples false view on love. My friend who's been with his girlfriend for over a year and a half, and he just bought his girlfriend a 300 dollar necklace, keep in mind that he is only 16. I would think that if a girl truly loved me, she wouldn't want me to spend that kind of money on her, and I wouldn't feel that I would need to. I would hope that the time we spend together, would be worth more then any jewelry I could buy for her.

Thanks for reading,
Ian.

Virginia Tech: Our thoughts are with you.

If you had been reading my old blog, you would know I like to make jokes about things and I use the Screen Name, Clubbytheseal. But today I am posting as Ian, and there will be no jokes in this update.
Most of you may know that yesterday, there was a tragedy at Virginia Tech College, 33 people were killed by a gunman who attended the school, his name was Cho Seung-Hui, and he was 23. Many people say that he was a social outcast, a "loner" is what they called him. They say that he committed this monstrosity because of a feud with his girlfriend, but most people don't kill 33 people, because of a argument with there girlfriend.

Jack Thompson is a useless human being. Jack comes out on the day of the shooting and announces that Cho Seung- Hui played violent video games, and that was the reason he did what he did. That is complete horse shit, even if he did play video games, their is no need for a person to say something like that after such a tragedy, I'm pretty sure the parents of the people who lost there lives aren't going to want to hear that the person who murdered there children, played video games, that doesn't matter to them, their children have been killed.

To end this update I would like to say one thing to the families of those who were killed.
Mourn not the time that you will miss with you're loved ones, but remember the time that you had with them.
I would ask you all to pray for the families of those who lost their loved ones.

Thanks for reading,
Ian.